We face many fears every day, all through our lives. Does any one can bet to have ever lived a full day without facing fear?.. I bet for sure no.. none... And i can assure you, its not possible once you develop your own perception of the world or the ability to differentiate and identify something different than YOU, and the "ONENESS", Fear creeps in and gets stuck in the mind from the moment you start differentiating and deviating from the "ONENESS" and start appreciating by your own MIND, logic, than experience it.
Many say, kids are fearless at start, god lives in them, they dont think b4 doing anything. Not that they are brain less, ability less, or skill less. Its just that they aint educated in OUR way of life, and appreciation of fear. But i somehow have observed that fear creeps in them even before that stage of which i am talking here. It starts at, as said above, you see "anything", new and different and have an ability to identify "seperateness", "Differentness".
Individuality, seperateness, "something different" in thought, life, expression, feelings, or anything new causes an excitement and anxiety in us, which tends to fill up the conscious space, but the identification of "seperateness" from "oneness" causes fear. And that fear, with its negative hindrances, creeps in, and controls the conscious space. When this choice is not in consonance with subconscious, friction starts and is a reason for many of unhappy souls hanging around in the world. Some are unhappy for the kind of work they do, some with their relationships, some with the environment, some are unhappy with themselves.
Its necessary to accept that fear is a natural emotion, but not necessarily negative in its making. We have associated the negativity of "NO" to it. Experience wise speaking all species experience similar feels with increased complexities in the natural evolution process. Human being the most complex race yet. It typcally results in "fight of flight" behaviour in lower evolved being than human, whereas the result is much more complex in human system involving, the physical, mental, conscious, subconscious, and super conscious < still to be explored, can't experience yet>. As all of the above are inter related and are affected by each other. its just the scale of disturbance which matters to disturb the other. And figuratively to speak, the affectation is EXPONENTIAL, when we move from the top to below i.e. super conscious to physical. And fear we talk about, is an emotion which affects only to consciousness levels, the conscious mind, and a different "THING" similar to it, catches its definition in the domains /spaces/categories/etc above it.
Fear is an anxious moments and vibrations caused by confrontation of something new in life, WHEN PERCIEVED FROM OUR OWN DEFINITION OF SELF AND PAST. Its important to understand that its is NOT NEGATIVE as we associate the feeling as. Fear is just another reaction which is caused as we cling on to our past knowledge or our self definition or expectations.
While comfort with fear is a contradiction in its own terms, we can learn to honor and respect it. That fear will provide a seed of unlimitable potential, from which the whole universe wil unbound in front of you, and help you be successful and more importantly be HAPPY AND JOYOUS. .ur fear is always good, for it gives an opportunity to stand take a moment and connect to your real self. Its important in recognizing its arrival, listening to its intelligence, and respecting it, and choosing the heart/instinct over that moment is a harbinger of transformation to your real nature and supernal definition. It delivers a transformation for life, for success, for positivity and happiness. And that will unleash the best in you, cos logically it can be proven, fear is good, it helps men grow, affectations are bad, as it says NO....
Enjoy and live with "fear", cos its the reason for growth, makes you think, let it not affect you. Use it, the best tool a human being ever has, to find our true nature. Nature has so well designed the whole system, that it gives us opportunities at every instance to be ourselves and live a joyous and happy life. When you face fear, listen to your heart, if your heart wants it, GO just do it, FOR that defines you and is in your nature. I have learnt to overcome my fear of speed, by motor biking in my school ( although i am still scared), my fear of water by learning to swin, all by myself, my fear of heights, by consciously making me bend over and enjoy the fear of death facing right in my face. It helps me to be happy in the face of constantly fearing life we are exposed to and brings a lot of creativity and a sense of being ALIVE in me.
I found fear of being alive without overcoming fear ,cringing to it, accepting it, is more fearing than being scared of death. Fear is much small than you assume it to be, you are THE LARGEST
.- Dream on, Live on........